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"The violence betwen women is unbelievable. Women try to make each other crawl so that their knees are bleeding"

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Tori Amos is doing what her best songwriting always does: taking something people prefer to call “drama” and naming it as blood sport. By calling it “violence,” she yanks female rivalry out of the cute, trivializing box society stuffs it into. This isn’t hair-pulling tabloid caricature; it’s psychological warfare dressed up as friendship, coolness, or “just being honest.” The shock of “unbelievable” reads less like naivete than like disgust at how normalized the damage is.

The image does the real work. “Make each other crawl” suggests humiliation as a social technology: you don’t just beat someone, you reduce them, force them into a posture of submission. “So that their knees are bleeding” is Amos’s signature move: turning interior harm into bodily fact. It’s visceral, feminine-coded (knees, crawling) without being precious, and it underlines that status games have consequences even when there’s no visible bruise. The cruelty is incremental, friction-based: a thousand small degradations until the body gives.

Context matters. Amos came up in an industry that routinely pitted women against one another for scarcity slots - the “only one” narrative - while rewarding compliance and punishing boundary-setting. The subtext is indictment: patriarchy doesn’t just oppress from above; it trains people to police each other from the side. She’s not exonerating men so much as exposing the system’s secondary effects, the way survival can curdle into sabotage.

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Amos, Tori. (2026, January 17). The violence betwen women is unbelievable. Women try to make each other crawl so that their knees are bleeding. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-violence-betwen-women-is-unbelievable-women-78704/

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Amos, Tori. "The violence betwen women is unbelievable. Women try to make each other crawl so that their knees are bleeding." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-violence-betwen-women-is-unbelievable-women-78704/.

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"The violence betwen women is unbelievable. Women try to make each other crawl so that their knees are bleeding." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-violence-betwen-women-is-unbelievable-women-78704/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Tori Amos (born August 22, 1963) is a Musician from USA.

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