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Success Quote by Jim Rohn

"The walls we build around us, to keep sadness out, also keeps out the joy"

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Self-protection has a hidden surcharge: emotional numbness. Jim Rohn’s line lands because it frames “walls” as a practical choice - something you build, brick by brick, with habits and rules that feel responsible in the moment. The phrasing borrows from the language of security and home improvement, which fits a businessman-motivator speaking to an audience trained to optimize risk. If sadness is treated like a loss to be avoided, the “solution” is containment: don’t get too attached, don’t expect too much, don’t show too much.

Rohn’s subtext is that emotional risk isn’t a bug in the human system; it’s the toll for a life that actually registers. The twist is structural: the same barrier that blocks pain also blocks joy, because both depend on permeability - closeness, hope, vulnerability, stakes. He’s quietly indicting the productivity mindset when it migrates into the heart: risk management becomes intimacy management, and you end up “safe” but starved.

Context matters. Rohn came up through the self-help circuit when American culture was increasingly enamored with personal responsibility and self-engineering. His message translates therapy-adjacent insight into the language of choice and consequences: you are not only what you pursue, you are what you refuse to feel. It works because it doesn’t romanticize suffering; it argues that avoidance has opportunity costs. The wall isn’t evil. It’s effective. That’s the problem.

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Later attribution: Jim Rohn’s Success Tips for an Exceptional Living (Sreechinth C, 2020) modern compilationID: dZLaDwAAQBAJ
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Rohn, Jim. (2026, February 17). The walls we build around us, to keep sadness out, also keeps out the joy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-walls-we-build-around-us-to-keep-sadness-out-35820/

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Rohn, Jim. "The walls we build around us, to keep sadness out, also keeps out the joy." FixQuotes. February 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-walls-we-build-around-us-to-keep-sadness-out-35820/.

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"The walls we build around us, to keep sadness out, also keeps out the joy." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-walls-we-build-around-us-to-keep-sadness-out-35820/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Jim Rohn (September 17, 1930 - December 5, 2009) was a Businessman from USA.

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