"The walls we build around us to keep sadness out also keeps out the joy"
About this Quote
Rohn’s subtext is that emotional risk isn’t a bug in the human system; it’s the toll for a life that actually registers. The twist is structural: the same barrier that blocks pain also blocks joy, because both depend on permeability - closeness, hope, vulnerability, stakes. He’s quietly indicting the productivity mindset when it migrates into the heart: risk management becomes intimacy management, and you end up “safe” but starved.
Context matters. Rohn came up through the self-help circuit when American culture was increasingly enamored with personal responsibility and self-engineering. His message translates therapy-adjacent insight into the language of choice and consequences: you are not only what you pursue, you are what you refuse to feel. It works because it doesn’t romanticize suffering; it argues that avoidance has opportunity costs. The wall isn’t evil. It’s effective. That’s the problem.
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| Topic | Joy |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rohn, Jim. (2026, January 14). The walls we build around us to keep sadness out also keeps out the joy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-walls-we-build-around-us-to-keep-sadness-out-35820/
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Rohn, Jim. "The walls we build around us to keep sadness out also keeps out the joy." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-walls-we-build-around-us-to-keep-sadness-out-35820/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The walls we build around us to keep sadness out also keeps out the joy." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-walls-we-build-around-us-to-keep-sadness-out-35820/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.










