"The whole growing-up process seems to have eluded me"
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The phrase “seems to have eluded me” is doing a lot. It’s wry, almost Victorian in its politeness, as if growing up were a bird she couldn’t quite catch. That distance is the subtext: she’s not confessing failure so much as pointing at a system that makes “growing up” hard to define. In celebrity culture, youth is monetized and adulthood is a brand refresh. Staying a little unfinished can be professionally useful, even as it’s personally destabilizing.
Ricci’s own career deepens the resonance. She was cast early as the preternaturally self-possessed kid (Wednesday Addams, among others), a persona that reads like maturity but is really a performance of control. The quote quietly punctures that myth. It invites empathy without begging for it: an adult voice naming the eerie sensation of being competent, accomplished, and still not feeling initiated into the ordinary rites everyone else takes for granted.
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| Topic | Youth |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ricci, Christina. (2026, January 16). The whole growing-up process seems to have eluded me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-whole-growing-up-process-seems-to-have-eluded-87450/
Chicago Style
Ricci, Christina. "The whole growing-up process seems to have eluded me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-whole-growing-up-process-seems-to-have-eluded-87450/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The whole growing-up process seems to have eluded me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-whole-growing-up-process-seems-to-have-eluded-87450/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.






