"The whole idea that what is not normal should be kept secret - that's really distasteful to me"
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As a scientist, Farmer’s stance lands with extra force because science is often invoked to police normalcy - to classify, pathologize, and draw bright lines around what counts as healthy, standard, or natural. His phrasing flips that script. “Not normal” is placed in quotation marks by implication, framed as a subjective category that says more about the gatekeepers than the person being labeled. The word “secret” is the tell: secrecy isn’t neutral here, it’s an enforcement mechanism. It protects the comfort of the majority, not the dignity of the minority.
The subtext is political without sounding like a slogan. In tech and scientific communities, where meritocracy rhetoric can coexist with harsh conformity, Farmer’s distaste reads as a demand for openness as an ethical baseline. He’s pushing against the idea that belonging is conditional on self-erasure. The line works because it’s plainspoken but accusatory: if you think “abnormal” should be hidden, you’re not just describing reality - you’re endorsing a quiet cruelty.
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Farmer, Dan. (2026, January 16). The whole idea that what is not normal should be kept secret - that's really distasteful to me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-whole-idea-that-what-is-not-normal-should-be-121576/
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"The whole idea that what is not normal should be kept secret - that's really distasteful to me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-whole-idea-that-what-is-not-normal-should-be-121576/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.









