"The words of kindness are more healing to a drooping heart than balm or honey"
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The comparison to “balm or honey” is doing sly cultural work. Both were familiar remedies in an 18th-century world that leaned heavily on household cures and sensory comfort. Balm soothes from the outside; honey sweetens and restores from within. By saying kindness out-heals them, Fielding elevates the social act of care above the period’s material pharmacopoeia. It’s also a gentle rebuke to a culture that often prized manners as performance: she is arguing for speech that is not merely polite but ethically attentive, tuned to another person’s vulnerability.
Subtextually, the sentence presses a moral economy: what we owe one another is not grand sacrifice but small, timely mercy. “Words of kindness” implies choice and restraint - you could speak sharply, ignore the sag, let someone “droop” in public. Fielding’s intent is corrective, almost instructional, shaped by a literary world where women’s emotional labor was expected yet undervalued. She reframes that labor as potent, even lifesaving, without romanticizing suffering: the healing is real, and it begins with what we decide to say.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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Fielding, Sarah. (n.d.). The words of kindness are more healing to a drooping heart than balm or honey. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-words-of-kindness-are-more-healing-to-a-133524/
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