"The worst moment for the atheist is when he is really thankful and has nobody to thank"
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The subtext is Victorian, and specifically Rossetti-ish: spiritual longing filtered through aesthetic intensity. In a culture where Christian grammar still structured public life, Rossetti frames disbelief not as wickedness but as deprivation. The "worst moment" isn't death or doubt; it's abundance. That choice matters. He's betting that atheism can coexist with sorrow (plenty of people endure sorrow alone), but not with joy that overflows. Gratitude wants to be relational; it implies gift, giver, and receiver. Strip out the giver and the feeling becomes narratively unstable, like applause in an empty theater.
There's also a sly rhetorical maneuver here: gratitude becomes evidence. Not proof in a logical sense, but the kind of experiential pressure that makes disbelief feel less like emancipation than like exile. Rossetti is leveraging an old religious argument - the heart knows what the head denies - and giving it a poet's edge: the ache isn't in not believing, it's in having no one to address when life, briefly, feels like grace.
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Rossetti, Dante G. (n.d.). The worst moment for the atheist is when he is really thankful and has nobody to thank. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-worst-moment-for-the-atheist-is-when-he-is-139628/
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"The worst moment for the atheist is when he is really thankful and has nobody to thank." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-worst-moment-for-the-atheist-is-when-he-is-139628/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.






