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Daily Inspiration Quote by Richard Kern

"Then I became aware of the site as the traffic for it became higher. The most recent contact was this girl, Lily. She wanted me to shoot her for the site and she actually showed up. There a lot of people who contact me to do a shoot for a website, then you never hear from them"

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Kern talks like a man describing a weather system he helped create: traffic rises, strangers appear, a “most recent contact” materializes in the real world. The flat, almost administrative tone is the point. In a culture that romanticizes the “muse,” he replaces seduction with metrics and logistics. “I became aware of the site as the traffic for it became higher” is a quietly damning line about attention online: legitimacy arrives not through artistic conviction but through numbers, and only then does he “become aware,” as if the work doesn’t fully exist until the audience validates it.

The name “Lily” functions as a humanizing detail dropped into an otherwise impersonal pipeline. She “wanted me to shoot her for the site and she actually showed up” reads like surprise at basic follow-through, but it also signals the power imbalance of internet-era access. The photographer becomes a gatekeeper to visibility; the subject becomes a self-selected applicant. That she “showed up” implies risk and faith on her side, routine skepticism on his.

Kern’s last sentence is the real tell: “then you never hear from them.” It’s less complaint than normalization of flakiness as a feature of online desire. The subtext is transactional intimacy: people approach the camera not for collaboration but for a hit of proximity to attention, then vanish when the fantasy collides with scheduling, consent, or consequence. He’s documenting an ecosystem where bodies, reputations, and bandwidth circulate, and where the most shocking thing is still reliability.

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Kern, Richard. (2026, February 17). Then I became aware of the site as the traffic for it became higher. The most recent contact was this girl, Lily. She wanted me to shoot her for the site and she actually showed up. There a lot of people who contact me to do a shoot for a website, then you never hear from them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/then-i-became-aware-of-the-site-as-the-traffic-123255/

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Kern, Richard. "Then I became aware of the site as the traffic for it became higher. The most recent contact was this girl, Lily. She wanted me to shoot her for the site and she actually showed up. There a lot of people who contact me to do a shoot for a website, then you never hear from them." FixQuotes. February 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/then-i-became-aware-of-the-site-as-the-traffic-123255/.

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"Then I became aware of the site as the traffic for it became higher. The most recent contact was this girl, Lily. She wanted me to shoot her for the site and she actually showed up. There a lot of people who contact me to do a shoot for a website, then you never hear from them." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/then-i-became-aware-of-the-site-as-the-traffic-123255/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.

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