"Then I got together with my brother and a friend and we decided to play dates. The more we played, the more we wanted to do it. And it got to a stage where we wanted to do it all the time"
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There is something disarmingly un-mythic about Ray Davies describing the birth of a life in music as "play dates". The phrase belongs to childhood logistics, not rock history, and that is exactly the point: it frames a career-defining obsession as an ordinary habit that quietly took over. Davies sidesteps the usual legend-making (no lightning bolt epiphany, no tortured destiny) and instead offers a simple escalation story: you do a thing, it feels good, so you do it again, until it stops being an activity and becomes a way of living.
The repetition does the work. "The more we played, the more we wanted to do it" reads like a loop you can't exit, desire feeding on practice, practice feeding on desire. By the time he lands on "a stage where we wanted to do it all the time", you can hear the shift from hobby to compulsion, from scheduling gigs to organizing your entire self around the next one. It's a subtle portrait of how bands form less from grand plans than from momentum and proximity: a brother, a friend, some dates to fill.
Context matters, too. Coming of age in postwar Britain, Davies is speaking from a culture where entertainment was becoming an escape hatch and a ladder at once. The line carries an unspoken bargain: if you want to do it "all the time", the rest of life becomes the thing you fit around music, not the other way around.
The repetition does the work. "The more we played, the more we wanted to do it" reads like a loop you can't exit, desire feeding on practice, practice feeding on desire. By the time he lands on "a stage where we wanted to do it all the time", you can hear the shift from hobby to compulsion, from scheduling gigs to organizing your entire self around the next one. It's a subtle portrait of how bands form less from grand plans than from momentum and proximity: a brother, a friend, some dates to fill.
Context matters, too. Coming of age in postwar Britain, Davies is speaking from a culture where entertainment was becoming an escape hatch and a ladder at once. The line carries an unspoken bargain: if you want to do it "all the time", the rest of life becomes the thing you fit around music, not the other way around.
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