"Then I wanted the character to be feminine as opposed to effeminate. Because it's easy to be camp or queen. Anyone can do that. What's difficult is to play feminine"
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“Feminine as opposed to effeminate” is where the real argument sits. Effeminacy, in pop language, often means masculinity with the volume turned down or played for jokes; it’s a deviation defined in relation to men. Femininity, as Murphy frames it, demands a different center of gravity: softness without parody, sensuality without winking at it, vulnerability that isn’t instantly converted into punchlines. It’s harder because it requires specificity. You can’t rely on stereotype. You have to build an inner life.
The subtext is also about respect and craft. Murphy implies that “anyone can do that” because audiences have been conditioned to accept certain caricatures as stand-ins for gender nonconformity. Playing “feminine” asks for disciplined restraint and empathy, and it challenges the viewer’s reflex to read femininity as either decoration or weakness. In a culture that still polices male actors for crossing gendered boundaries, he’s staking out a serious artistic intent: not to signal difference, but to inhabit it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Murphy, Cillian. (2026, January 15). Then I wanted the character to be feminine as opposed to effeminate. Because it's easy to be camp or queen. Anyone can do that. What's difficult is to play feminine. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/then-i-wanted-the-character-to-be-feminine-as-108828/
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Murphy, Cillian. "Then I wanted the character to be feminine as opposed to effeminate. Because it's easy to be camp or queen. Anyone can do that. What's difficult is to play feminine." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/then-i-wanted-the-character-to-be-feminine-as-108828/.
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"Then I wanted the character to be feminine as opposed to effeminate. Because it's easy to be camp or queen. Anyone can do that. What's difficult is to play feminine." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/then-i-wanted-the-character-to-be-feminine-as-108828/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




