"There are a couple of teachers I have had without whose influence I would not be as happy with who I am"
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The wording is tellingly modest: “a couple of teachers,” not a grand pantheon. It suggests specificity, actual relationships, the kind where a comment after class or a moment of belief lands harder than any curriculum. “Without whose influence” is also a careful dodge around ego. He’s not denying agency, but he’s refusing the myth of the self-made artist, which is both more honest and more generous.
There’s subtext in the slightly awkward construction (“as happy with who I am”), as if the sentence is reaching for something difficult to say cleanly: that happiness is contingent, built, and often borrowed. It frames mentorship as emotional infrastructure. In a culture that loves dramatic redemption arcs, Astin offers a smaller, more plausible story: people become survivable to themselves because someone steady showed up early on and treated them as worth the work.
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| Topic | Teacher Appreciation |
|---|---|
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Astin, Mackenzie. (n.d.). There are a couple of teachers I have had without whose influence I would not be as happy with who I am. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-a-couple-of-teachers-i-have-had-without-131286/
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Astin, Mackenzie. "There are a couple of teachers I have had without whose influence I would not be as happy with who I am." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-a-couple-of-teachers-i-have-had-without-131286/.
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"There are a couple of teachers I have had without whose influence I would not be as happy with who I am." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-a-couple-of-teachers-i-have-had-without-131286/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.





