"There are a lot of things I can take, and a few that I can't. What I can't take is when my older brother, who's everything that I want to be, starts losing faith in things. I saw that look in your eyes last night. I don't ever want to see that look in your eyes again"
About this Quote
The older brother isn’t just family, he’s an identity template: “everything that I want to be.” That line smuggles in dependence. The younger sibling’s self-belief is outsourced upward, and the brother’s “losing faith in things” threatens a whole emotional ecosystem. This isn’t about one bad night. It’s about the possibility that the world the speaker has been borrowing meaning from might be hollow.
Shyamalan’s intent is classic him: make the supernatural feel secondary to the interpersonal. The phrase “that look in your eyes” is a cinematic close-up, a shorthand for the moment when someone’s inner story changes. He doesn’t name the trauma or the doubt; he makes you imagine it, which is more unsettling. The subtext is grief in advance - the speaker is mourning the brother they might be about to lose, not physically, but spiritually.
Contextually, it’s a director’s line that understands stakes as emotional physics. Faith here isn’t religion so much as a posture toward life: the willingness to keep believing that things are worth trusting. The demand at the end isn’t control; it’s a plea for stability, for the older brother to keep holding the family’s narrative together.
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| Topic | Brother |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Shyamalan, M. Night. (2026, January 15). There are a lot of things I can take, and a few that I can't. What I can't take is when my older brother, who's everything that I want to be, starts losing faith in things. I saw that look in your eyes last night. I don't ever want to see that look in your eyes again. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-a-lot-of-things-i-can-take-and-a-few-146829/
Chicago Style
Shyamalan, M. Night. "There are a lot of things I can take, and a few that I can't. What I can't take is when my older brother, who's everything that I want to be, starts losing faith in things. I saw that look in your eyes last night. I don't ever want to see that look in your eyes again." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-a-lot-of-things-i-can-take-and-a-few-146829/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There are a lot of things I can take, and a few that I can't. What I can't take is when my older brother, who's everything that I want to be, starts losing faith in things. I saw that look in your eyes last night. I don't ever want to see that look in your eyes again." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-a-lot-of-things-i-can-take-and-a-few-146829/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.











