"There are many things in your heart you can never tell to another person. They are you, your private joys and sorrows, and you can never tell them. You cheapen yourself, the inside of yourself, when you tell them"
About this Quote
The subtext is a critique of performance itself. Garbo is famous for projecting emotion onscreen while refusing access off it, and this quote clarifies the logic: revealing the “inside” to satisfy someone else’s curiosity risks turning the self into a prop. It also hints at how storytelling can become self-betrayal. When you translate private joys and sorrows into words for another person, you simplify them, shape them to be understood, and in that shaping you distort them.
Context matters: Garbo emerged from the studio-era star system, when publicity machines engineered intimacy and the public expected a parasocial claim. Her refusal to play that game (“I want to be alone,” as the myth goes) reads less like aloofness and more like labor politics: a demand to keep something unworked, unextracted. In today’s economy of oversharing, the quote feels bracingly unfashionable, insisting that not everything is content and not every feeling needs an audience to be real.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Garbo, Greta. (2026, January 18). There are many things in your heart you can never tell to another person. They are you, your private joys and sorrows, and you can never tell them. You cheapen yourself, the inside of yourself, when you tell them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-many-things-in-your-heart-you-can-never-4458/
Chicago Style
Garbo, Greta. "There are many things in your heart you can never tell to another person. They are you, your private joys and sorrows, and you can never tell them. You cheapen yourself, the inside of yourself, when you tell them." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-many-things-in-your-heart-you-can-never-4458/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There are many things in your heart you can never tell to another person. They are you, your private joys and sorrows, and you can never tell them. You cheapen yourself, the inside of yourself, when you tell them." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-many-things-in-your-heart-you-can-never-4458/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






