"There are no mistakes. The events we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, are necessary in order to learn what we need to learn; whatever steps we take, they're necessary to reach the places we've chosen to go"
About this Quote
The intent is motivational, but the subtext is more bracing: responsibility. Notice how quickly “events” become “the events we bring upon ourselves.” Fate is demoted; agency is promoted. That pivot flatters the reader (you are the chooser), then disciplines them (you chose this, too). It’s a worldview that turns victimhood into a temporary category, useful only until you can extract the lesson and move on.
Context matters. Bach’s work, especially in the post-’60s spiritual-self-help lineage of Jonathan Livingston Seagull and Illusions, treats reality as pliable and the self as a kind of pilot. This quote fits that era’s hunger for meaning without institutions: spirituality stripped of doctrine, replaced with personal growth, with “necessary” doing the heavy lifting that religion once did.
The rhetoric works because it’s totalizing. “Whatever steps we take” leaves no loopholes, no alternate timelines to mourn. That can be liberating for people stuck in shame. It can also be coercive, a polished way of telling yourself to accept avoidable harm as destiny. Bach sells a soothing determinism dressed up as freedom: you’re not lost, you’re training.
Quote Details
| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bach, Richard. (2026, January 15). There are no mistakes. The events we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, are necessary in order to learn what we need to learn; whatever steps we take, they're necessary to reach the places we've chosen to go. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-no-mistakes-the-events-we-bring-upon-9944/
Chicago Style
Bach, Richard. "There are no mistakes. The events we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, are necessary in order to learn what we need to learn; whatever steps we take, they're necessary to reach the places we've chosen to go." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-no-mistakes-the-events-we-bring-upon-9944/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There are no mistakes. The events we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, are necessary in order to learn what we need to learn; whatever steps we take, they're necessary to reach the places we've chosen to go." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-no-mistakes-the-events-we-bring-upon-9944/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





