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Time & Perspective Quote by Ivan Turgenev

"There are some moments in life, some feelings; one can only point to them and pass by"

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Turgenev’s line performs a quiet refusal: not everything can be narrated, not everything should be. “One can only point” is an aesthetic philosophy disguised as modesty. The novelist, whose job is to render the interior legible, pauses at the edge of language and admits that certain experiences exceed even the best-made sentences. It’s not anti-art; it’s a discipline of restraint. By insisting we “pass by,” he protects the moment from being flattened into explanation, moral, or plot utility.

The subtext is both psychological and social. In Turgenev’s Russia, intense feeling was rarely a private possession; it was entangled with class, duty, and reputation. To fully “say” a feeling could be to confess too much, to endanger oneself or others, to turn a private tremor into public evidence. Pointing becomes a coded gesture: the author signals depth without forcing exposure, inviting the reader to supply what polite society and personal pride won’t allow to be spoken aloud.

Formally, the sentence works because it converts ineffability into movement. It doesn’t dramatize the unsayable with grand mysticism; it treats it as a simple fact of life, like walking past a house you can’t enter. That’s classic Turgenev: emotion as atmosphere rather than declaration, a realism that knows its own limits. The result is intimacy without intrusion, an ethical stance as much as a stylistic one.

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Turgenev, Ivan. (2026, January 18). There are some moments in life, some feelings; one can only point to them and pass by. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-some-moments-in-life-some-feelings-one-7186/

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Turgenev, Ivan. "There are some moments in life, some feelings; one can only point to them and pass by." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-some-moments-in-life-some-feelings-one-7186/.

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"There are some moments in life, some feelings; one can only point to them and pass by." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-some-moments-in-life-some-feelings-one-7186/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Ivan Turgenev

Ivan Turgenev (October 28, 1818 - September 3, 1883) was a Novelist from Russia.

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