"There are some moments in life, some feelings; one can only point to them and pass by"
About this Quote
The subtext is both psychological and social. In Turgenev’s Russia, intense feeling was rarely a private possession; it was entangled with class, duty, and reputation. To fully “say” a feeling could be to confess too much, to endanger oneself or others, to turn a private tremor into public evidence. Pointing becomes a coded gesture: the author signals depth without forcing exposure, inviting the reader to supply what polite society and personal pride won’t allow to be spoken aloud.
Formally, the sentence works because it converts ineffability into movement. It doesn’t dramatize the unsayable with grand mysticism; it treats it as a simple fact of life, like walking past a house you can’t enter. That’s classic Turgenev: emotion as atmosphere rather than declaration, a realism that knows its own limits. The result is intimacy without intrusion, an ethical stance as much as a stylistic one.
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| Topic | Live in the Moment |
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Turgenev, Ivan. (2026, January 18). There are some moments in life, some feelings; one can only point to them and pass by. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-some-moments-in-life-some-feelings-one-7186/
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Turgenev, Ivan. "There are some moments in life, some feelings; one can only point to them and pass by." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-some-moments-in-life-some-feelings-one-7186/.
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"There are some moments in life, some feelings; one can only point to them and pass by." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-some-moments-in-life-some-feelings-one-7186/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.











