"There are some things that we know are just not as pleasant as the lies that we tell ourselves, and in that sense, in order to endure existence, everyone endures a certain amount of dishonesty in their everyday lives"
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The intent is to puncture the self-help fantasy that authenticity is always healing. Rundgren suggests the opposite: some truths are so unpleasant that pure honesty becomes a kind of cruelty, even when it’s self-directed. The subtext is about maintenance - the small stories that keep a person functional: I’m fine, this is temporary, they didn’t mean it, I’ll start tomorrow. He’s pointing at the quiet bargains we make with reality to get through work, relationships, aging, ambition, regret.
Context matters because Rundgren comes from a pop landscape built on curated feeling. Rock stardom runs on persona, reinvention, the stage self that’s truer than truth because it’s engineered to be bearable and coherent. His phrasing (“a certain amount”) is key: he’s arguing for dosage, not delusion. Total honesty is unbearable; total dishonesty is collapse. The everyday ethic he’s sketching is pragmatic: we don’t just live by facts, we live by fictions calibrated to keep us moving.
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| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Rundgren, Todd. (2026, February 16). There are some things that we know are just not as pleasant as the lies that we tell ourselves, and in that sense, in order to endure existence, everyone endures a certain amount of dishonesty in their everyday lives. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-some-things-that-we-know-are-just-not-116324/
Chicago Style
Rundgren, Todd. "There are some things that we know are just not as pleasant as the lies that we tell ourselves, and in that sense, in order to endure existence, everyone endures a certain amount of dishonesty in their everyday lives." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-some-things-that-we-know-are-just-not-116324/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There are some things that we know are just not as pleasant as the lies that we tell ourselves, and in that sense, in order to endure existence, everyone endures a certain amount of dishonesty in their everyday lives." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-some-things-that-we-know-are-just-not-116324/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.









