"There are some who want to get married and others who don't. I have never had an impulse to go to the altar. I am a difficult person to lead"
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Then she tightens the blade: "I have never had an impulse to go to the altar". Not "I chose not to", not "I couldn't" - "never had an impulse". The word impulse is doing double duty. It frames marriage as a spontaneous urge she simply lacks, and it implies that the cultural push toward the altar is less sacred calling than instinct, habit, crowd pressure. It's a subtle demotion of ceremony into psychology.
"I am a difficult person to lead" lands like an unromantic punchline. She rejects the traditional script where marriage equals being guided, contained, civilized. In Garbo's era, especially for a female celebrity, matrimony was often marketed as both happy ending and reputational insurance. Her subtext: the altar is also a leash, and she doesn't do leashes.
Context sharpens the intent. Garbo was famous for withdrawal, privacy, and an almost militant separation between persona and person. This isn't a manifesto; it's brand-aligned candor. She deflects prying questions without pleading or apologizing, offering a self-diagnosis that reads like self-possession. The line preserves the myth ("Garbo is untouchable") while quietly critiquing the expectation that a woman, even one who conquered the screen, must still be "led" somewhere.
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| Topic | Marriage |
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Garbo, Greta. (n.d.). There are some who want to get married and others who don't. I have never had an impulse to go to the altar. I am a difficult person to lead. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-some-who-want-to-get-married-and-others-4459/
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Garbo, Greta. "There are some who want to get married and others who don't. I have never had an impulse to go to the altar. I am a difficult person to lead." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-some-who-want-to-get-married-and-others-4459/.
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"There are some who want to get married and others who don't. I have never had an impulse to go to the altar. I am a difficult person to lead." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-some-who-want-to-get-married-and-others-4459/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.









