"There are two things people want more than sex and money... Recognition and praise"
About this Quote
The intent is managerial as much as philosophical. Ash built Mary Kay Cosmetics on a recognition economy: pink Cadillacs, glittering pins, public ceremonies that turned performance metrics into identity. The subtext is both empathetic and instrumental. Yes, she acknowledges a human need for validation. She also offers a blueprint for directing that need toward productivity, loyalty, and self-policing ambition. Praise becomes a low-cost currency with a high conversion rate.
Context matters: as a woman building a company in mid-century America, Ash sold opportunity alongside lipstick. Her recognition systems offered many women status they were denied elsewhere, translating domestic-coded skills (presentation, sociability, resilience) into public reward. That makes the quote feel empowering, even as it exposes a hustle-culture pressure point: when recognition is the real paycheck, withholding it becomes discipline, and chasing it can turn work into a perpetual audition.
It works because it’s not moralizing; it’s market-savvy psychology, delivered with the bluntness of someone who has watched incentives shape souls.
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| Topic | Respect |
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Ash, Mary Kay. (2026, February 19). There are two things people want more than sex and money... Recognition and praise. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-two-things-people-want-more-than-sex-29399/
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Ash, Mary Kay. "There are two things people want more than sex and money... Recognition and praise." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-two-things-people-want-more-than-sex-29399/.
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"There are two things people want more than sex and money... Recognition and praise." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-two-things-people-want-more-than-sex-29399/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.











