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Wealth & Money Quote by Mary Kay Ash

"There are two things people want more than sex and money... Recognition and praise"

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Mary Kay Ash understood the dirty little secret of capitalism: people will chase a paycheck, but they will bleed for applause. Her line lands because it demotes the usual taboos (sex, money) and elevates something we like to pretend is optional: the craving to be seen. In a single beat, she reframes motivation as social, not merely material. The ellipsis functions like a saleswoman's pause, letting you fill in the obvious answer before she flips the script.

The intent is managerial as much as philosophical. Ash built Mary Kay Cosmetics on a recognition economy: pink Cadillacs, glittering pins, public ceremonies that turned performance metrics into identity. The subtext is both empathetic and instrumental. Yes, she acknowledges a human need for validation. She also offers a blueprint for directing that need toward productivity, loyalty, and self-policing ambition. Praise becomes a low-cost currency with a high conversion rate.

Context matters: as a woman building a company in mid-century America, Ash sold opportunity alongside lipstick. Her recognition systems offered many women status they were denied elsewhere, translating domestic-coded skills (presentation, sociability, resilience) into public reward. That makes the quote feel empowering, even as it exposes a hustle-culture pressure point: when recognition is the real paycheck, withholding it becomes discipline, and chasing it can turn work into a perpetual audition.

It works because it’s not moralizing; it’s market-savvy psychology, delivered with the bluntness of someone who has watched incentives shape souls.

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Ash, Mary Kay. (2026, February 19). There are two things people want more than sex and money... Recognition and praise. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-two-things-people-want-more-than-sex-29399/

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Ash, Mary Kay. "There are two things people want more than sex and money... Recognition and praise." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-two-things-people-want-more-than-sex-29399/.

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"There are two things people want more than sex and money... Recognition and praise." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-two-things-people-want-more-than-sex-29399/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Mary Kay Ash (May 12, 1918 - November 22, 2001) was a Businesswoman from USA.

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