"There are unwanted emotions and pain that goes along with any birth"
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The intent feels less philosophical than practical: a permission slip. If you’re trying to become something else - a parent, a partner, a sober person, a person after loss - and you feel ugly feelings alongside the “miracle,” you’re not failing the moment. You’re inside it. “Any birth” widens the metaphor beyond literal childbirth into reinvention, career rebirth, recovery, and the constant self-editing modern life demands. It’s a line that speaks to an era that markets transformation as a product, complete with before-and-after photos, while hiding the middle: the limbo where your old self isn’t working and the new self hasn’t arrived.
Given Travolta’s long, very public arc - meteoric fame, reinvention, and real-life grief - the subtext reads as earned: emergence costs something. Not because the universe is cruel, but because change is a rupture, and ruptures hurt.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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Travolta, John. (2026, January 16). There are unwanted emotions and pain that goes along with any birth. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-unwanted-emotions-and-pain-that-goes-132752/
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Travolta, John. "There are unwanted emotions and pain that goes along with any birth." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-unwanted-emotions-and-pain-that-goes-132752/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There are unwanted emotions and pain that goes along with any birth." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-unwanted-emotions-and-pain-that-goes-132752/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






