"There are women who take it to the wire. That's what they are looking for, the ultimate confrontation. They want a smack"
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The subtext is older than Connery: a patriarchal script where women are cast as provocateurs and men as reluctant enforcers, absolved by the claim that they’re merely delivering what’s “asked for.” The phrasing shifts agency away from the man committing harm and onto an imagined female appetite for punishment. It’s the logic of victim-blaming rendered as masculine candor.
Context matters: Connery said variations of this in interviews across decades when “tough guy” charisma was routinely confused with moral authority, and celebrity men could launder ugly beliefs through charm. The quote reads now like an artifact of that permissive media ecosystem, where misogyny could be presented as a spicy opinion rather than a worldview with consequences. What made it “work” then is exactly what makes it chilling now: confidence substituting for evidence, and charisma trying to turn coercion into common sense.
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| Topic | Anger |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Connery, Sean. (2026, January 16). There are women who take it to the wire. That's what they are looking for, the ultimate confrontation. They want a smack. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-women-who-take-it-to-the-wire-thats-97387/
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Connery, Sean. "There are women who take it to the wire. That's what they are looking for, the ultimate confrontation. They want a smack." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-women-who-take-it-to-the-wire-thats-97387/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There are women who take it to the wire. That's what they are looking for, the ultimate confrontation. They want a smack." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-are-women-who-take-it-to-the-wire-thats-97387/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.






