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Creativity Quote by Ethel Merman

"There have been people who have tried to take advantage of me. They want to be linked to me just because I'm Ethel Merman"

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Fame, in Merman's telling, isn’t a spotlight; it’s a magnet. The line lands with the brisk, no-nonsense timing you’d expect from a performer who made a career out of projecting certainty to the back row. She doesn’t romanticize celebrity or pretend it’s misunderstood. She frames it as a social economy where proximity becomes currency and other people try to spend your name.

The specific intent is defensive and clarifying: she’s drawing a boundary between genuine relationships and opportunistic attachment. “Tried to take advantage” is deliberately plain, almost bluntly procedural, as if she’s describing a recurring hassle rather than a heartbreak. That choice matters. Merman isn’t asking for sympathy; she’s asserting competence. She’s telling you she can spot the con.

The subtext sits in the phrase “just because I’m Ethel Merman.” It’s both brand and burden: her identity has been flattened into a marquee. There’s a quiet irony in having to use your own name as evidence in a sentence about being dehumanized by it. She’s not complaining that people know her; she’s noting that they know “Ethel Merman,” the symbol, and treat the person as an access point.

Context does the rest. In mid-century show business, networking often blurred into parasitism, and women in power were especially targeted - praised for their “personality” while others tried to manage, monetize, or borrow it. Merman’s quote reads like a survival note from the Broadway industrial machine: stay loud onstage, stay vigilant off it.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Merman, Ethel. (2026, January 17). There have been people who have tried to take advantage of me. They want to be linked to me just because I'm Ethel Merman. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-have-been-people-who-have-tried-to-take-51663/

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Merman, Ethel. "There have been people who have tried to take advantage of me. They want to be linked to me just because I'm Ethel Merman." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-have-been-people-who-have-tried-to-take-51663/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There have been people who have tried to take advantage of me. They want to be linked to me just because I'm Ethel Merman." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-have-been-people-who-have-tried-to-take-51663/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Ethel Merman (January 16, 1908 - February 15, 1984) was a Musician from USA.

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