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Time & Perspective Quote by Donald Johanson

"There have been some friendships lost over this. That's the most difficult for me. I find it very uncomfortable to know that I was at one time close friends with someone, and because of jealousies and misunderstandings and so on, these friendships have dissolved"

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You can hear the lab-coat understatement fighting with something rawer: the shock that professional life can turn intimate bonds into collateral damage. Johanson isn’t talking about petty social drift; he’s describing the specific kind of fracture that happens when stakes are high, credit is scarce, and reputations get built on contested stories. For a scientist, “friendships lost” is a startling metric of cost - not grant money, not citations, but the personal wreckage left behind when discovery becomes a zero-sum game.

The phrasing does quiet, strategic work. He never names an antagonist, never litigates facts. “Jealousies and misunderstandings and so on” is a deliberately vague bundle - enough to acknowledge ugliness without reopening a case. That vagueness signals both fatigue and self-protection: he’s aware that in scientific feuds, any specificity becomes ammunition. Yet the line “I find it very uncomfortable” betrays how deeply he’s unsettled by the mismatch between his earlier trust and the later narrative warfare. The discomfort isn’t just sadness; it’s cognitive dissonance. How do you reconcile the memory of closeness with the reality that the relationship was apparently contingent on status, access, or agreement?

Context matters: paleoanthropology and “big finds” can polarize a field, turning colleagues into camps. Johanson’s intent reads less like confession than a cautionary account of what discovery culture can do to people. The subtext: the science may be objective, but the human machinery around it rarely is.

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Donald Johanson

Donald Johanson (born June 28, 1943) is a Scientist from USA.

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