"There have been some friendships lost over this. That's the most difficult for me. I find it very uncomfortable to know that I was at one time close friends with someone, and because of jealousies and misunderstandings and so on, these friendships have dissolved"
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The phrasing does quiet, strategic work. He never names an antagonist, never litigates facts. “Jealousies and misunderstandings and so on” is a deliberately vague bundle - enough to acknowledge ugliness without reopening a case. That vagueness signals both fatigue and self-protection: he’s aware that in scientific feuds, any specificity becomes ammunition. Yet the line “I find it very uncomfortable” betrays how deeply he’s unsettled by the mismatch between his earlier trust and the later narrative warfare. The discomfort isn’t just sadness; it’s cognitive dissonance. How do you reconcile the memory of closeness with the reality that the relationship was apparently contingent on status, access, or agreement?
Context matters: paleoanthropology and “big finds” can polarize a field, turning colleagues into camps. Johanson’s intent reads less like confession than a cautionary account of what discovery culture can do to people. The subtext: the science may be objective, but the human machinery around it rarely is.
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| Topic | Broken Friendship |
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Johanson, Donald. (2026, January 17). There have been some friendships lost over this. That's the most difficult for me. I find it very uncomfortable to know that I was at one time close friends with someone, and because of jealousies and misunderstandings and so on, these friendships have dissolved. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-have-been-some-friendships-lost-over-this-69931/
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Johanson, Donald. "There have been some friendships lost over this. That's the most difficult for me. I find it very uncomfortable to know that I was at one time close friends with someone, and because of jealousies and misunderstandings and so on, these friendships have dissolved." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-have-been-some-friendships-lost-over-this-69931/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There have been some friendships lost over this. That's the most difficult for me. I find it very uncomfortable to know that I was at one time close friends with someone, and because of jealousies and misunderstandings and so on, these friendships have dissolved." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-have-been-some-friendships-lost-over-this-69931/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








