"There is a destiny which makes us brothers; none goes his way alone. All that we send into the lives of others comes back into our own"
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The phrase “makes us brothers” is strategically intimate and slightly coercive. Brotherhood implies obligation, not just affection. Markham isn’t inviting empathy so much as insisting on accountability. “None goes his way alone” punctures the American individualist myth that a life can be walled off, consequences neatly contained. The grammar is simple, almost biblical, which gives the thought the authority of common sense rather than ideology.
Then the quote turns transactional: “All that we send into the lives of others comes back into our own.” This isn’t karma as mysticism; it’s ethics as social physics. Harm circulates. Kindness, too, but the subtext is sharper: cruelty boomerangs, neglect metastasizes, indifference taxes everyone eventually. In the late 19th and early 20th century - Markham’s era of industrial extraction, labor unrest, and widening class divides - that premise lands as an implicit critique of a society trying to privatize responsibility. The line makes an old poetic move feel like civic instruction: the “I” is never just singular; it’s a node in a network that keeps receipts.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Markham, Edwin. (2026, January 15). There is a destiny which makes us brothers; none goes his way alone. All that we send into the lives of others comes back into our own. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-a-destiny-which-makes-us-brothers-none-72950/
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Markham, Edwin. "There is a destiny which makes us brothers; none goes his way alone. All that we send into the lives of others comes back into our own." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-a-destiny-which-makes-us-brothers-none-72950/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There is a destiny which makes us brothers; none goes his way alone. All that we send into the lives of others comes back into our own." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-a-destiny-which-makes-us-brothers-none-72950/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









