"There is a large stock on hand; but somehow or other, nobody's experience ever suits us but our own"
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The bite comes in the pivot: “somehow or other.” It’s a shrug that refuses to moralize, implying this isn’t a rare flaw but a default setting. Landon’s “us” widens the target beyond the young, the naive, the romantic. Everyone is implicated, including the speaker. That collective voice turns the line from scold to diagnosis: experience only becomes convincing when it has our fingerprints on it, when it costs us something.
Context matters. Writing in the early 19th century, Landon was producing poetry in a culture that loved instructive sentiment but policed women’s choices and reputations with particular zeal. Advice, for women, was never neutral; it was a tool of control. Read that way, the quote carries a double edge: it acknowledges the stubborn autonomy of the self while hinting at why borrowed experience might “not suit” us - because it often comes packaged with someone else’s agenda. Landon captures the paradox cleanly: we crave freedom, and we pay for it by learning the hard way.
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Landon, Letitia. (2026, January 16). There is a large stock on hand; but somehow or other, nobody's experience ever suits us but our own. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-a-large-stock-on-hand-but-somehow-or-87602/
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Landon, Letitia. "There is a large stock on hand; but somehow or other, nobody's experience ever suits us but our own." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-a-large-stock-on-hand-but-somehow-or-87602/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There is a large stock on hand; but somehow or other, nobody's experience ever suits us but our own." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-a-large-stock-on-hand-but-somehow-or-87602/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.





