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Love Quote by Paramahansa Yogananda

"There is a magnet in your heart that will attract true friends. That magnet is unselfishness, thinking of others first; when you learn to live for others, they will live for you"

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The line sells altruism the way modern self-help sells “manifestation”: as a force field. Yogananda takes a spiritual ethic - unselfishness - and gives it a physics metaphor that flatters the listener into agency. You are not merely asked to be good; you are told you can become magnetic. In an age when social life felt newly unmoored by migration, urbanization, and the churn of modern work, that promise lands as both moral instruction and practical survival tip: act for others and you will not end up alone.

The subtext is quietly transactional, and that’s why it works. “True friends” are framed as the reward, but the reward is positioned as a natural consequence rather than a bargain. By calling it a “magnet,” he sidesteps the grimy calculus of social exchange: if you lead with generosity, reciprocity will arrive as if governed by law. It’s a comforting upgrade on karma, stripped of ritual and delivered in plain, portable imagery.

As a leader of a globalizing spiritual movement, Yogananda also modernizes Eastern teachings for Western ears. The language avoids doctrine and leans on an almost American optimism: self-transformation yields social transformation. The final turn - “they will live for you” - is rhetorically bold, even risky, because it implies not just affection but loyalty. It’s an argument for community as an earned ecosystem: make yourself useful, and you become indispensable. That’s less saintly than it sounds, and more psychologically accurate.

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Paramahansa Yogananda

Paramahansa Yogananda (January 5, 1893 - March 7, 1952) was a Leader from India.

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