"There is a magnet in your heart that will attract true friends. That magnet is unselfishness, thinking of others first; when you learn to live for others, they will live for you"
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The subtext is quietly transactional, and that’s why it works. “True friends” are framed as the reward, but the reward is positioned as a natural consequence rather than a bargain. By calling it a “magnet,” he sidesteps the grimy calculus of social exchange: if you lead with generosity, reciprocity will arrive as if governed by law. It’s a comforting upgrade on karma, stripped of ritual and delivered in plain, portable imagery.
As a leader of a globalizing spiritual movement, Yogananda also modernizes Eastern teachings for Western ears. The language avoids doctrine and leans on an almost American optimism: self-transformation yields social transformation. The final turn - “they will live for you” - is rhetorically bold, even risky, because it implies not just affection but loyalty. It’s an argument for community as an earned ecosystem: make yourself useful, and you become indispensable. That’s less saintly than it sounds, and more psychologically accurate.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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Yogananda, Paramahansa. (2026, January 15). There is a magnet in your heart that will attract true friends. That magnet is unselfishness, thinking of others first; when you learn to live for others, they will live for you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-a-magnet-in-your-heart-that-will-attract-26213/
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Yogananda, Paramahansa. "There is a magnet in your heart that will attract true friends. That magnet is unselfishness, thinking of others first; when you learn to live for others, they will live for you." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-a-magnet-in-your-heart-that-will-attract-26213/.
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"There is a magnet in your heart that will attract true friends. That magnet is unselfishness, thinking of others first; when you learn to live for others, they will live for you." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-a-magnet-in-your-heart-that-will-attract-26213/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.










