"There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love"
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The line’s power comes from its courtroom logic disguised as lyricism. “Not the mark of weakness, but of power” reads like a rebuttal to an unspoken accusation. He’s arguing with a culture that equates emotional leakage with incompetence. Then he escalates with a clean, modern-sounding dunk on language itself: tears “speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues.” It’s hyperbole, yes, but also an aesthetic manifesto. Sentiment, for Irving and the Romantic currents around him, isn’t less true because it’s wordless; it’s more true because it bypasses rhetoric, performance, and social lying.
The trio of causes - “overwhelming grief,” “deep contrition,” “unspeakable love” - sketches a moral map. Tears certify that you can be wounded, accountable, and tender. That’s the subtext: emotion as ethical evidence. Irving isn’t asking readers to indulge in melodrama; he’s giving them permission to treat vulnerability as a kind of strength that can’t be faked, precisely because it interrupts the very machinery of self-presentation.
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| Topic | Sadness |
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| Source | Later attribution: Say It Again 1,500 Times (Margaret Swensen, 2010) modern compilationISBN: 9781594331848 · ID: pcVxEQAAQBAJ
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Irving, Washington. (2026, February 15). There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-a-sacredness-in-tears-they-are-not-the-32634/
Chicago Style
Irving, Washington. "There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love." FixQuotes. February 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-a-sacredness-in-tears-they-are-not-the-32634/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love." FixQuotes, 15 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-a-sacredness-in-tears-they-are-not-the-32634/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.











