"There is always a certain peace in being what one is, in being that completely"
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The repetition does the work. First, “being what one is” suggests identity as a fact; then “being that completely” turns it into a practice. Complete being isn’t just self-knowledge, it’s self-exposure. You don’t get peace by discovering a hidden “true self,” you get it by refusing the daily edits: the softened opinions, the strategic silences, the convenient personas. That second clause also hints at danger. To be complete is to be accountable for the whole of yourself, including the parts society punishes or mistrusts. Peace arrives not because the world accepts you, but because you stop negotiating with it.
The subtext is theatrical, which fits Betti: life as a stage where most people survive through partial performances. His insight is that fragmentation is exhausting. The mind spends its energy managing contradictions, maintaining alibis, keeping characters straight. “A certain peace” comes when the play ends and the actor stays in the light, no longer splitting into roles for different rooms. In a century of ideological demands and social surveillance, that’s not a cozy sentiment; it’s a small act of defiance.
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| Topic | Contentment |
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"There is always a certain peace in being what one is, in being that completely." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-always-a-certain-peace-in-being-what-one-111162/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.










