Skip to main content

Daily Inspiration Quote by Francis Bacon

"There is as much difference between the counsel that a friend giveth, and that a man giveth himself, as there is between the counsel of a friend and of a flatterer. For there is no such flatterer as is a man's self"

About this Quote

Bacon lands the insult where it hurts most: on our pride in being rational. He sets up a tidy scale of trust - friend, self, flatterer - then collapses it into one grim punch line. The shock is the reclassification. You think self-counsel is the gold standard because it feels private, unbribed, pure. Bacon argues it is the most bribed counsel of all, because the briber and the bribed are the same person.

The intent is corrective, almost managerial. In Bacon's world, advice is a technology for better decisions, and the biggest bug in the system is the ego's ability to launder desire into "good reasons". A flatterer tells you what you want to hear to gain access or advantage. The self does the same thing to gain something more intimate: comfort, innocence, a story where you remain competent and blameless. His phrasing, "no such flatterer as is a man's self", is deliberately absolute, the kind of overstatement that functions as diagnosis. If you feel accused, you're already proving him right.

Context matters: Bacon writes at the dawn of modern empiricism, suspicious of inherited authority and equally suspicious of the mind's internal authority. This is the same impulse behind his warnings about "idols" - systematic mental errors. Friendship becomes a tool not for sentimentality but for epistemic hygiene: an external check against the self's most persuasive spin doctor.

Quote Details

TopicFriendship
SourceHelp us find the source
Cite

Citation Formats

APA Style (7th ed.)
Bacon, Francis. (2026, January 18). There is as much difference between the counsel that a friend giveth, and that a man giveth himself, as there is between the counsel of a friend and of a flatterer. For there is no such flatterer as is a man's self. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-as-much-difference-between-the-counsel-6661/

Chicago Style
Bacon, Francis. "There is as much difference between the counsel that a friend giveth, and that a man giveth himself, as there is between the counsel of a friend and of a flatterer. For there is no such flatterer as is a man's self." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-as-much-difference-between-the-counsel-6661/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There is as much difference between the counsel that a friend giveth, and that a man giveth himself, as there is between the counsel of a friend and of a flatterer. For there is no such flatterer as is a man's self." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-as-much-difference-between-the-counsel-6661/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

More Quotes by Francis Add to List
Francis Bacon on Self-Flattery and True Counsel
Click to enlarge Portrait | Landscape

About the Author

Francis Bacon

Francis Bacon (January 21, 1561 - April 9, 1626) was a Philosopher from England.

104 more quotes available

View Profile

Similar Quotes