"There is no refuge from memory and remorse in this world. The spirits of our foolish deeds haunt us, with or without repentance"
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The sentence works because it yokes two forces that usually get separated: memory (what happened) and remorse (how it feels to live with it). Parker suggests they’re inseparable and, worse, inescapable. The haunting isn’t supernatural melodrama; it’s a psychological audit. “Spirits” implies a presence that can’t be argued with, only endured. That’s a pointed move from a politician: it quietly demystifies redemption narratives. Repentance may be morally meaningful, but it’s not a delete key.
The subtext is almost prosecutorial. “Foolish deeds” sounds mild, but it’s a trapdoor word: it covers vanity, cruelty, cowardice, expedience - the small compromises that accumulate into a character. Parker’s sting is the final clause: “with or without repentance.” He denies repentance its usual payoff (peace). You can be sorry and still be haunted; you can be shameless and still be haunted. The world, in his view, is not arranged to soothe you. It’s arranged to remember.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Parker, Gilbert. (2026, January 17). There is no refuge from memory and remorse in this world. The spirits of our foolish deeds haunt us, with or without repentance. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-no-refuge-from-memory-and-remorse-in-48518/
Chicago Style
Parker, Gilbert. "There is no refuge from memory and remorse in this world. The spirits of our foolish deeds haunt us, with or without repentance." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-no-refuge-from-memory-and-remorse-in-48518/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There is no refuge from memory and remorse in this world. The spirits of our foolish deeds haunt us, with or without repentance." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-no-refuge-from-memory-and-remorse-in-48518/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.







