"There is no true love save in suffering, and in this world we have to choose either love, which is suffering, or happiness. Man is the more man - that is, the more divine - the greater his capacity for suffering, or rather, for anguish"
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The line’s machinery is its hard binary: love or happiness. Unamuno isn’t naïve about pleasure; he’s suspicious of it as an endpoint. He’s operating in the register of his lifelong obsession with the “tragic sense of life” - the human animal who can imagine eternity and therefore can’t fully consent to finitude. That’s why he upgrades suffering into “anguish.” Anguish is suffering plus consciousness: the spiritual vertigo of caring about something that can break.
The subtext is a rebuke to tidy moral systems, including polite religiosity. His “more divine” isn’t saintly glow; it’s intensity. Divinity becomes the capacity to bear inner conflict without resolving it into slogans. There’s also an edge of cultural polemic: against the bourgeois ideal of contentment, against the modern temptation to treat love as a consumer good that should deliver “happiness” on schedule.
Unamuno’s intent isn’t to romanticize misery; it’s to argue that the price of being fully human is refusing the painless life.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Unamuno, Miguel de. (2026, January 16). There is no true love save in suffering, and in this world we have to choose either love, which is suffering, or happiness. Man is the more man - that is, the more divine - the greater his capacity for suffering, or rather, for anguish. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-no-true-love-save-in-suffering-and-in-88418/
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Unamuno, Miguel de. "There is no true love save in suffering, and in this world we have to choose either love, which is suffering, or happiness. Man is the more man - that is, the more divine - the greater his capacity for suffering, or rather, for anguish." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-no-true-love-save-in-suffering-and-in-88418/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There is no true love save in suffering, and in this world we have to choose either love, which is suffering, or happiness. Man is the more man - that is, the more divine - the greater his capacity for suffering, or rather, for anguish." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-no-true-love-save-in-suffering-and-in-88418/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








