"There is nothing worse that a thirteen-year-old boy. You're embarrassed by your parents, and you're trying to find your independance because, deep inside, you are so dependent on your mom"
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The intent is to puncture the myth of the self-made teenager. The thirteen-year-old boy wants independence like it’s a trophy, but Affleck frames it as a negotiation with dependency, not an escape from it. The punch lands on that contradiction: you’re “embarrassed by your parents” precisely because you still need them. Mortification becomes a cover for gratitude and fear. Mom, specifically, shows up as the emotional gravity you pretend not to orbit. It’s a neatly chosen detail, and culturally loaded: in American coming-of-age scripts, separating from the mother is often treated as the first test of masculinity, which makes the dependency feel like a secret weakness.
Context-wise, coming from a movie star and public dad, the quote carries a second layer: a guy who has lived under scrutiny describing a stage defined by hypersensitivity to scrutiny. Thirteen is when your social world becomes a jury, and parents become evidence of your uncoolness. Affleck’s humor is doing protective work, too. By joking, he gives adults permission to empathize rather than punish, and he gives kids a way to recognize themselves without having to admit it outright.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Affleck, Ben. (n.d.). There is nothing worse that a thirteen-year-old boy. You're embarrassed by your parents, and you're trying to find your independance because, deep inside, you are so dependent on your mom. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-nothing-worse-that-a-thirteen-year-old-40462/
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Affleck, Ben. "There is nothing worse that a thirteen-year-old boy. You're embarrassed by your parents, and you're trying to find your independance because, deep inside, you are so dependent on your mom." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-nothing-worse-that-a-thirteen-year-old-40462/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There is nothing worse that a thirteen-year-old boy. You're embarrassed by your parents, and you're trying to find your independance because, deep inside, you are so dependent on your mom." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-nothing-worse-that-a-thirteen-year-old-40462/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.







