"There is nowhere you can go and only be with people who are like you. Give it up"
About this Quote
“Only be with people who are like you” targets a seductive impulse in identity politics and subculture-building: the idea that safety equals sameness. Reagon understands safety differently. For her, the work of freedom happens in rooms where you’re not fully comfortable, where your language isn’t the default, where you have to negotiate rather than perform. The blunt imperative “Give it up” is key: it’s not scolding for sport, it’s an intervention. She’s cutting off the endless prelude of “once we find our people…” that delays action.
The subtext is also about music itself. Reagon came out of traditions where harmonies are made from distinct voices, not clones singing in unison. The line argues that solidarity is a practiced skill, like keeping time: you listen, adjust, hold your part, and stay in the song even when the chord gets tense. In an age of algorithmic enclaves and political sorting, her insistence reads less like cynicism than a survival tactic.
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Reagon, Bernice Johnson. (2026, January 15). There is nowhere you can go and only be with people who are like you. Give it up. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-nowhere-you-can-go-and-only-be-with-39335/
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Reagon, Bernice Johnson. "There is nowhere you can go and only be with people who are like you. Give it up." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-nowhere-you-can-go-and-only-be-with-39335/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There is nowhere you can go and only be with people who are like you. Give it up." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-nowhere-you-can-go-and-only-be-with-39335/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.












