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Life & Wisdom Quote by Robert Louis Stevenson

"There is only one difference between a long life and a good dinner: that, in the dinner, the sweets come last"

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Stevenson turns moral bookkeeping into menu planning, then slips the knife in with a grin. The line looks like a parlor aphorism - light, civilized, almost throwaway - but it’s really a rebuke to the Victorian habit of treating life as a ledger where pleasure must be earned, deferred, and justified. A good dinner has structure: you suffer the greens because the pudding is scheduled. A long life, he suggests, offers no such guarantee. Time doesn’t obey the kitchen.

The intent is double: to puncture the fantasy that endurance equals reward, and to expose how easily humans confuse sequencing with meaning. We narrate lives the way we narrate meals, assuming the “sweets” are waiting somewhere ahead if we just keep chewing. Stevenson’s wit lands because it’s domestic and precise; everyone understands dessert as a promise, which makes its absence in life feel suddenly stark.

Subtext: the real danger isn’t mortality, it’s the way optimism can become procrastination. If you bank joy for later, you may discover “later” isn’t part of the course. That’s not hedonism so much as a critique of misplaced prudence: the respectable person who saves everything for retirement, the dutiful soul who delays love, travel, risk, art - until the body or the world renegotiates the terms.

Context matters. Stevenson lived with chronic illness and a heightened awareness of fragility; his work often balances adventure with the sense that fate is indifferent. The joke is elegant because it’s earned: a writer who knew life could be cut short refuses to romanticize mere length, and insists on timing, texture, and taste.

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TopicWitty One-Liners
SourceAttributed to Robert Louis Stevenson; listed on Wikiquote (Robert Louis Stevenson). Primary/print source not specified on that page.
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Robert Louis Stevenson

Robert Louis Stevenson (November 13, 1850 - December 3, 1894) was a Writer from Scotland.

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