"There is only one failure in life possible, and that is not to be true to the best one knows"
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The phrase "the best one knows" is doing heavy lifting. Eliot isn’t pretending moral truth is simple or universally shared. She’s conceding the limits of human certainty while insisting those limits don’t absolve you. You’re accountable to your highest available understanding, not to perfection. That’s a radical standard because it’s internal, portable, and impossible to outsource to church, husband, or crowd.
Context matters: Eliot wrote as Mary Ann Evans, a woman who took a male pen name and lived openly with George Henry Lewes outside legal marriage. Victorian England specialized in turning private life into a moral courtroom, especially for women. Her sentence reads like a counter-prosecutor’s brief: the real sin isn’t violating a social code; it’s violating your own tested convictions. It also doubles as an artistic manifesto. For a novelist obsessed with ethical complexity, being "true" isn’t sincerity-as-vibes. It’s disciplined attention to what you actually know about people, consequences, and your own motives, then refusing the comforting lie.
Quote Details
| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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| Source | Later attribution: George Eliot (Daniel Coenn, 2014) modern compilationISBN: 9783736818569 · ID: KD3SAwAAQBAJ
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... There is only one failure in life possible, and that is not to be true to the best one knows.” “To have in general but little feeling, seems to be the only security against feeling too much on any particular occasion.” “Truth has rough ... |
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"There is only one failure in life possible, and that is not to be true to the best one knows." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-only-one-failure-in-life-possible-and-28265/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.









