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Love Quote by George Sand

"There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved"

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Sand’s line lands like a simple maxim, but it’s really a provocation: an attempt to demote everything 19th-century France treated as “serious” happiness - status, security, reputation, even marriage as an institution - and promote a feeling that refuses to stay polite. “Only one” is the pressure point. It’s not descriptive; it’s insurgent. Sand isn’t measuring life and finding love happens to win. She’s telling you what deserves to count.

The phrasing does a sly bit of democratic work. Not “to be loved,” not “to love,” but the circuit of both - agency and vulnerability, desire and reciprocity. That closes the loophole of romantic martyrdom (loving without being met) and the hollow triumph of admiration (being loved without giving). Happiness, here, isn’t possession; it’s exchange.

Context matters because Sand’s own life was a public argument with the era’s rules. Writing under a male pen name, dressing in men’s clothes, taking lovers, working with the urgency of someone who had to buy her freedom page by page: she made intimacy and independence negotiate in real time. In that light, the quote isn’t soft-focus sentiment. It’s a credo from someone who knew how quickly “happiness” gets weaponized into obedience - be respectable, be quiet, be grateful.

The subtext is almost modern: love as the one thing that can’t be fully privatized or hierarchized. You can inherit money, marry up, win acclaim, but you can’t fake reciprocity for long. Sand’s austerity - only one happiness - is what gives the line its bite. It’s romantic, yes, and also ruthlessly anti-bourgeois.

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Sand, George. (2026, January 15). There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-only-one-happiness-in-this-life-to-love-164712/

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Sand, George. "There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-only-one-happiness-in-this-life-to-love-164712/.

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"There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-only-one-happiness-in-this-life-to-love-164712/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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George Sand

George Sand (July 1, 1804 - June 8, 1876) was a Novelist from France.

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