"There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved"
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The phrasing does a sly bit of democratic work. Not “to be loved,” not “to love,” but the circuit of both - agency and vulnerability, desire and reciprocity. That closes the loophole of romantic martyrdom (loving without being met) and the hollow triumph of admiration (being loved without giving). Happiness, here, isn’t possession; it’s exchange.
Context matters because Sand’s own life was a public argument with the era’s rules. Writing under a male pen name, dressing in men’s clothes, taking lovers, working with the urgency of someone who had to buy her freedom page by page: she made intimacy and independence negotiate in real time. In that light, the quote isn’t soft-focus sentiment. It’s a credo from someone who knew how quickly “happiness” gets weaponized into obedience - be respectable, be quiet, be grateful.
The subtext is almost modern: love as the one thing that can’t be fully privatized or hierarchized. You can inherit money, marry up, win acclaim, but you can’t fake reciprocity for long. Sand’s austerity - only one happiness - is what gives the line its bite. It’s romantic, yes, and also ruthlessly anti-bourgeois.
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| Topic | Love |
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Sand, George. (2026, January 15). There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-only-one-happiness-in-this-life-to-love-164712/
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"There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-only-one-happiness-in-this-life-to-love-164712/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.










