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Success Quote by Frederic William Farrar

"There is only one real failure in life that is possible, and that is, not to be true to the best one knows"

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Farrar frames failure as a moral category, not a social one, and that choice does a lot of quiet work. In a century obsessed with respectability, empire, and public reputation, he refuses the common scoreboard. Money, status, even outward “success” are demoted to side plots. The only catastrophe that counts is internal: the moment you betray your own clearest moral insight.

The phrasing is surgical. “Only one real failure” narrows the field until there’s no escape hatch: you can’t plead bad luck, ignorance, or other people. Then he adds a second tightening screw: “possible.” Failure isn’t fate; it’s a decision. The subtext is pastoral but also disciplinary. Farrar’s theology isn’t merely about belief; it’s about conscience as an instrument you’re responsible for maintaining. The line doesn’t flatter you with perfection, either. It doesn’t demand omniscience or sainthood, just fidelity to “the best one knows” - a standard calibrated to your light, not someone else’s.

That last clause matters in a religious context where doubt, modern science, and higher criticism were unsettling inherited certainties. Farrar, known for a comparatively humane Anglican voice, makes room for moral growth without moral relativism: your knowledge can deepen, but your obligation is immediate. The rhetoric also sidesteps sectarian dogma. He doesn’t say “true to doctrine,” but “true” to what you know is best, making the quote portable beyond church walls while still sounding like a sermon. It’s an ethic of integrity that quietly indicts hypocrisy, self-deception, and the fashionable vice of outsourcing responsibility to systems.

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Farrar, Frederic William. (2026, January 15). There is only one real failure in life that is possible, and that is, not to be true to the best one knows. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-only-one-real-failure-in-life-that-is-150635/

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Farrar, Frederic William. "There is only one real failure in life that is possible, and that is, not to be true to the best one knows." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-only-one-real-failure-in-life-that-is-150635/.

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"There is only one real failure in life that is possible, and that is, not to be true to the best one knows." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-only-one-real-failure-in-life-that-is-150635/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Frederic William Farrar (1831 - 1903) was a Theologian from India.

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