"There is only one situation I can think of in which men and women make an effort to read better than they usually do. It is when they are in love and reading a love letter"
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The line works because it turns “reading” from a skill into a behavior shaped by hunger. A love letter makes readers suddenly forensic: tone becomes evidence, punctuation turns into mood, every ambiguity a threat or a promise. You reread not for comprehension but for reassurance, leverage, and meaning you can live with. Adler’s choice of “effort” matters: close reading isn’t a natural posture, it’s work we do when the payoff is emotional survival.
There’s a mild sting in the gender symmetry too. “Men and women” signals this isn’t a niche romantic stereotype; it’s a human pattern. In the mid-century context of Adler’s lifelong campaign for “great books” literacy, the joke doubles as a critique of his own project: we can teach methods, but motivation is the real engine. The subtext is less romantic than diagnostic. If you want a nation of better readers, you don’t just assign texts; you have to make people feel addressed.
Quote Details
| Topic | Romantic |
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| Source | Mortimer J. Adler, How to Read a Book (1940; revised 1972 with Charles Van Doren) — line appears in this work. |
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Adler, Mortimer. (2026, January 18). There is only one situation I can think of in which men and women make an effort to read better than they usually do. It is when they are in love and reading a love letter. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-only-one-situation-i-can-think-of-in-17717/
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Adler, Mortimer. "There is only one situation I can think of in which men and women make an effort to read better than they usually do. It is when they are in love and reading a love letter." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-only-one-situation-i-can-think-of-in-17717/.
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"There is only one situation I can think of in which men and women make an effort to read better than they usually do. It is when they are in love and reading a love letter." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-only-one-situation-i-can-think-of-in-17717/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.





