"There is only one way to happiness, and that is to cease worrying things which are beyond the power of our will"
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The intent is almost tactical. Epictetus taught in an empire built on volatility, and he himself was born enslaved. When your external life can be altered by a whim of power, the only reliable refuge is an internal one. “Cease worrying” isn’t soft reassurance; it’s an order to stop wasting mental labor on variables you can’t control: reputation, illness, other people’s choices, political weather. Those aren’t merely distractions. They are traps, because they trick you into measuring your life by outcomes you don’t own.
The subtext is a rebuke to the ego’s favorite fantasy: that anxiety is a form of influence. Worry feels like action, like vigilance, like care. Epictetus calls it what it often is: unauthorized management. His phrase “beyond the power of our will” narrows morality to what’s actually yours - judgments, intentions, responses - and refuses to let chance masquerade as personal failure.
In a culture that markets happiness as consumption or achievement, this is a counter-economy: fewer investments in the uncontrollable, more attention to the only asset that can’t be repossessed.
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| Topic | Happiness |
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... There is only one way to happiness, and that is to cease worrying things which are beyond the power of our will. Epictetus I have learned to seek my happiness by limiting my desires, rather than attempting to satisfy them. John Stuart ... |
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