"There is overwhelming evidence that the higher the level of self-esteem, the more likely one will be to treat others with respect, kindness, and generosity"
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The subtext is a rebuke to moralism that relies on shame. If cruelty often masquerades as strength, Branden flips the script: contempt is a symptom of inner scarcity, not superiority. "Higher the level" also implies gradation and training, not a binary state you either have or don't. Self-esteem becomes something built through competence, integrity, and agency - Branden's long-running theme - and the payoff isn't just personal happiness but better behavior under friction: respect when you're challenged, kindness when you're insecure, generosity when you could hoard.
Context matters. Branden rose to prominence in a late-20th-century American culture obsessed with achievement, status, and later, "self-esteem" as a school-program buzzword. This line tries to rescue the concept from both sides: from therapy-speak emptiness and from critics who blame self-esteem for entitlement. It's less "be nice to yourself" than "secure people can afford to be decent."
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| Topic | Kindness |
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Branden, Nathaniel. "There is overwhelming evidence that the higher the level of self-esteem, the more likely one will be to treat others with respect, kindness, and generosity." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-overwhelming-evidence-that-the-higher-124595/.
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"There is overwhelming evidence that the higher the level of self-esteem, the more likely one will be to treat others with respect, kindness, and generosity." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-overwhelming-evidence-that-the-higher-124595/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









