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Happiness Quote by Oscar Wilde

"There is something terribly morbid in the modern sympathy with pain. One should sympathise with the colour, the beauty, the joy of life. The less said about life's sores the better"

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Wilde is picking a fight with Victorian virtue as performance: the era’s habit of laundering moral seriousness through public pity. Calling modern sympathy with pain “terribly morbid” isn’t just contrarian sparkle. It’s a diagnosis. He’s noticed how quickly compassion can harden into a taste for suffering, a kind of ethical rubbernecking where misery becomes a credential and grief a ticket into the respectable conversation. The line has the cool cruelty of a well-cut epigram because it flips the assumed hierarchy: pain isn’t ennobling; it’s sticky, contagious, and oddly fashionable.

The intent is aesthetic, but the subtext is political. Wilde isn’t arguing for indifference so much as refusing the sentimental economy that turns people into case studies. “Sympathise with the colour” is a provocation: attend to life as experience, not as sermon. It’s also a defense of art’s autonomy against the Victorian demand that stories justify themselves by teaching lessons or stoking tearful reform. Wilde knows that audiences who insist on “issue” and uplift often want the appearance of caring more than they want change; sorrow becomes a consumable spectacle.

Context sharpens the blade. Wilde lived in a culture obsessed with propriety, punishment, and the moral theater of disgrace - a culture that would later savor his downfall. Read with that in mind, “The less said about life’s sores the better” lands less like denial and more like refusal: don’t let suffering be your religion, and don’t let it be your entertainment.

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Wilde, Oscar. (2026, January 15). There is something terribly morbid in the modern sympathy with pain. One should sympathise with the colour, the beauty, the joy of life. The less said about life's sores the better. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-something-terribly-morbid-in-the-modern-35706/

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Wilde, Oscar. "There is something terribly morbid in the modern sympathy with pain. One should sympathise with the colour, the beauty, the joy of life. The less said about life's sores the better." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-something-terribly-morbid-in-the-modern-35706/.

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"There is something terribly morbid in the modern sympathy with pain. One should sympathise with the colour, the beauty, the joy of life. The less said about life's sores the better." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-something-terribly-morbid-in-the-modern-35706/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Oscar Wilde (October 16, 1854 - November 30, 1900) was a Dramatist from Ireland.

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