"There is sublime thieving in all giving. Someone gives us all he has and we are his"
About this Quote
The line’s intent is less to shame charity than to expose its emotional economy. Big gifts - devotion, care, money, time, attention - are rarely neutral. They can bind, recruit, or quietly purchase moral authority. Hoffer, who wrote with a skeptic’s eye about mass movements and the hunger to belong, understood how surrender and loyalty get manufactured. Total giving resembles the dynamics of discipleship: the giver empties out, the receiver becomes steward, and stewardship is a leash.
Context matters: Hoffer’s era was thick with ideologies demanding "everything" - nation, party, cause. Against that backdrop, his aphorism reads like a warning label. Beware the beautiful coercion of sacrifice; beware the way gratitude can curdle into possession. The most moving gifts can also annex you, not through force, but through the hard-to-refuse holiness of someone else’s need.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Hoffer, Eric. (2026, January 15). There is sublime thieving in all giving. Someone gives us all he has and we are his. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-sublime-thieving-in-all-giving-someone-15691/
Chicago Style
Hoffer, Eric. "There is sublime thieving in all giving. Someone gives us all he has and we are his." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-sublime-thieving-in-all-giving-someone-15691/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There is sublime thieving in all giving. Someone gives us all he has and we are his." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-is-sublime-thieving-in-all-giving-someone-15691/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.










