"There must have been something in my nature - I believe, with all my heart, that I have conquered it now - which prevented me from being perfectly happy or making a woman perfectly happy"
About this Quote
The most revealing word is “perfectly.” Veidt isn’t just mourning missed happiness; he’s admitting to an all-or-nothing ideal of romantic success, the kind that turns ordinary friction into evidence of personal defect. That perfectionism doubles as a shield. If the standard is “perfect,” then anything less can be framed as fate or “nature,” rather than specific choices, incompatibilities, or harms.
Context matters: Veidt’s screen persona often carried an elegant menace or haunted vulnerability, and his life unfolded amid the pressures of celebrity, displacement, and the era’s moral scrutiny. Read against that backdrop, the quote sounds like an actor translating messy biography into a cleaner narrative arc: a flawed self, a hard-won conquest, the hope of being fit for love. It’s not just remorse; it’s an attempt to rewrite the ending while the spotlight is still on.
Quote Details
| Topic | Heartbreak |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Veidt, Conrad. (2026, January 15). There must have been something in my nature - I believe, with all my heart, that I have conquered it now - which prevented me from being perfectly happy or making a woman perfectly happy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-must-have-been-something-in-my-nature-i-141700/
Chicago Style
Veidt, Conrad. "There must have been something in my nature - I believe, with all my heart, that I have conquered it now - which prevented me from being perfectly happy or making a woman perfectly happy." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-must-have-been-something-in-my-nature-i-141700/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There must have been something in my nature - I believe, with all my heart, that I have conquered it now - which prevented me from being perfectly happy or making a woman perfectly happy." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-must-have-been-something-in-my-nature-i-141700/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.






