"There seems to be this impression that if I really am a psychotherapist, I can't be serious about it. They think there must be something fishy going on"
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The quote also captures the way “authenticity” gets policed when a woman’s career doesn’t fit the neat categories people prefer. The phrasing “There seems to be this impression” is doing social work: she’s describing a climate rather than picking a fight, which lets the listener hear the bias without immediately retreating into “I’m not like that.” Then she drops the dagger: “fishy.” It’s casual, almost comic, but it names the accusation that lurks under polite skepticism: that she’s performing expertise the way she performs roles.
Context matters here: celebrity culture sells intimacy while also making it suspect. We expect public figures to narrate their trauma, dispense life advice, and be “relatable,” then punish them when they try to formalize that into real practice. Stephenson’s intent isn’t just to defend psychotherapists with unusual backgrounds; it’s to expose a broader discomfort with people who refuse to stay legible. The subtext is a challenge: if you’re so sure seriousness has a uniform, maybe you’re the one mistaking appearances for truth.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stephenson, Pamela. (2026, January 16). There seems to be this impression that if I really am a psychotherapist, I can't be serious about it. They think there must be something fishy going on. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-seems-to-be-this-impression-that-if-i-109058/
Chicago Style
Stephenson, Pamela. "There seems to be this impression that if I really am a psychotherapist, I can't be serious about it. They think there must be something fishy going on." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-seems-to-be-this-impression-that-if-i-109058/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There seems to be this impression that if I really am a psychotherapist, I can't be serious about it. They think there must be something fishy going on." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-seems-to-be-this-impression-that-if-i-109058/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.








