"There was a lot of stress and assumptions made without me even saying anything, which was very upsetting"
About this Quote
The key move is "without me even saying anything". Silence here isn't consent or secrecy; it's treated as a blank space others rush to fill. In sports culture, that vacuum becomes a projection screen for narratives fans, pundits, and even teams find convenient: injury speculation, locker-room drama, attitude problems, contract leverage, personal life gossip. Stevens is naming the violence of that process without giving it the satisfaction of specifics. The anonymity of the offenders ("assumptions made") mirrors the way blame diffuses across social media and press cycles: no single villain, just a machine.
"Which was very upsetting" lands almost understated, and that's the point. Athletes are trained to perform stoicism; emotional candor is often policed as weakness. By choosing a simple, almost plainspoken register, Stevens signals he's not playing the PR game of crafted outrage. He's describing a psychological cost: being stressed by other people's certainty while being denied the basic dignity of being heard. In a culture that demands constant access, the quote reads as a boundary - and a quiet accusation that the audience can't handle one.
Quote Details
| Topic | Stress |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stevens, Craig. (2026, January 15). There was a lot of stress and assumptions made without me even saying anything, which was very upsetting. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-was-a-lot-of-stress-and-assumptions-made-170854/
Chicago Style
Stevens, Craig. "There was a lot of stress and assumptions made without me even saying anything, which was very upsetting." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-was-a-lot-of-stress-and-assumptions-made-170854/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There was a lot of stress and assumptions made without me even saying anything, which was very upsetting." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-was-a-lot-of-stress-and-assumptions-made-170854/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.


