"There was a queen that was overthrown here. So I was affected by all of that and felt profoundly grateful for the opportunity to live in Hawaii, and I set out at once to try to fit in"
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The pivot to gratitude and “the opportunity” is doing double duty. On one hand, it reads as genuine humility: he’s naming the privilege of being allowed to live somewhere with a distinct identity and a long memory of outsiders arriving with entitlement. On the other, it’s careful inoculation. Gratitude becomes a rhetorical shield against the perennial suspicion directed at transplants, especially those who go on to wield power. “Fit in” is the softest possible verb for a harder reality: in Hawaii, you’re measured not just by intentions but by whether you understand the history you’re standing on.
The subtext is political: acknowledging the overthrow is a way of nodding to Native Hawaiian grievance without committing to any specific remedy. It’s a recognition statement that can broaden appeal across constituencies - locals who want their history respected, and newcomers who want a script for respectful arrival. Abercrombie’s line is less about assimilation than about legitimacy: an argument that awareness, gratitude, and deference are prerequisites for governing a place that was taken before it was welcomed.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Abercrombie, Neil. (2026, January 16). There was a queen that was overthrown here. So I was affected by all of that and felt profoundly grateful for the opportunity to live in Hawaii, and I set out at once to try to fit in. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-was-a-queen-that-was-overthrown-here-so-i-118784/
Chicago Style
Abercrombie, Neil. "There was a queen that was overthrown here. So I was affected by all of that and felt profoundly grateful for the opportunity to live in Hawaii, and I set out at once to try to fit in." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-was-a-queen-that-was-overthrown-here-so-i-118784/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There was a queen that was overthrown here. So I was affected by all of that and felt profoundly grateful for the opportunity to live in Hawaii, and I set out at once to try to fit in." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-was-a-queen-that-was-overthrown-here-so-i-118784/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




