"There was always a love-hate relationship with New York in the rest of the country, but I made them feel more love than hate"
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Koch is also sneaking in an argument about representation. New York, in the national imagination, is often reduced to caricature: money, crime, immigrants, sharp elbows, sharper accents. By claiming he made the country feel “more love than hate,” he casts himself as an interpreter between the city and the rest of America, someone who could translate New York’s intensity into something legible and even likable. That’s a politician’s version of civic PR, but it’s also personal branding: Koch as the approachable face of an unapproachable metropolis.
Context matters: he governed in the late 1970s and 1980s, when New York was clawing back from fiscal crisis, high crime, and a general sense of urban unraveling. The line is a victory lap, but it’s also defensive. It suggests he understood that mayors don’t just manage budgets and services; they manage the country’s permission for New York to matter.
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Koch, Ed. (2026, January 17). There was always a love-hate relationship with New York in the rest of the country, but I made them feel more love than hate. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-was-always-a-love-hate-relationship-with-58026/
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"There was always a love-hate relationship with New York in the rest of the country, but I made them feel more love than hate." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-was-always-a-love-hate-relationship-with-58026/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





