"There was that feminist myth that we can do everything. I don't think you can"
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Jessica Lange’s line lands like a pin to a balloon: not an attack on feminism so much as a rejection of its most marketable aftertaste. “That feminist myth” frames a once-radical promise as a kind of cultural fairy tale, something smoothed and repeated until it becomes a slogan you can hang on a mug. Then she deflates it with a plain, almost weary cadence: “I don’t think you can.” The power is in the bluntness. No manifesto, no apology, just a boundary drawn in everyday language.
The intent reads less like contrarianism and more like testimony from someone who’s lived inside a system that demands constant reinvention while punishing visible limits. An actress of Lange’s generation came up in an industry that treats women’s time as an expiration date and their ambition as a personality flaw. Against that backdrop, the “can do everything” script isn’t empowering; it’s punitive. It suggests that if you’re exhausted, if you choose one role over another, if you don’t “balance” career, motherhood, beauty, activism, and eternal gratitude, the failure is personal rather than structural.
Subtext: the myth isn’t feminism’s original idea so much as a neoliberal remix of it - empowerment repackaged as endless individual optimization. Lange nudges the conversation back toward trade-offs, mortality, and the right to be finite. It’s a small sentence with a big cultural insistence: liberation shouldn’t require superhuman performance.
The intent reads less like contrarianism and more like testimony from someone who’s lived inside a system that demands constant reinvention while punishing visible limits. An actress of Lange’s generation came up in an industry that treats women’s time as an expiration date and their ambition as a personality flaw. Against that backdrop, the “can do everything” script isn’t empowering; it’s punitive. It suggests that if you’re exhausted, if you choose one role over another, if you don’t “balance” career, motherhood, beauty, activism, and eternal gratitude, the failure is personal rather than structural.
Subtext: the myth isn’t feminism’s original idea so much as a neoliberal remix of it - empowerment repackaged as endless individual optimization. Lange nudges the conversation back toward trade-offs, mortality, and the right to be finite. It’s a small sentence with a big cultural insistence: liberation shouldn’t require superhuman performance.
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