"There we times when everybody in the house has the flu. You're cleaning up vomit and it's 2 in the morning, and you're wishing there was somebody else there to help you"
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The intent reads like a quiet corrective to the way we talk about family and partnership: not in terms of milestones, but in terms of labor. When she says you’re “wishing there was somebody else there,” the ache isn’t only loneliness; it’s logistics. Illness reveals the invisible scaffolding that keeps a home upright, and it also exposes how often that scaffolding is built by one person, typically without applause, pay, or even backup. The line smuggles in a critique of the lone-hero parenting narrative and the cultural habit of treating care as a personality trait rather than a job.
As an actress, Tilly knows the power of a single prop to tell the whole story. “Flu” is ordinary; “cleaning up vomit” is the uncut scene we edit out of our family myths. The subtext is a plea for partnership that’s less about grand gestures and more about shared burden: love measured in who gets up at 2 a.m., and whether anyone gets up with you.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tilly, Meg. (2026, January 16). There we times when everybody in the house has the flu. You're cleaning up vomit and it's 2 in the morning, and you're wishing there was somebody else there to help you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-we-times-when-everybody-in-the-house-has-131305/
Chicago Style
Tilly, Meg. "There we times when everybody in the house has the flu. You're cleaning up vomit and it's 2 in the morning, and you're wishing there was somebody else there to help you." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-we-times-when-everybody-in-the-house-has-131305/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There we times when everybody in the house has the flu. You're cleaning up vomit and it's 2 in the morning, and you're wishing there was somebody else there to help you." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-we-times-when-everybody-in-the-house-has-131305/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








