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Daily Inspiration Quote by Meg Tilly

"There we times when everybody in the house has the flu. You're cleaning up vomit and it's 2 in the morning, and you're wishing there was somebody else there to help you"

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Domestic crisis is where the romance of “having it all” goes to die. Meg Tilly’s image is blunt on purpose: vomit at 2 a.m., the whole household sick, the caregiver running on fumes. It’s not poetic, it’s bodily. That specificity is the point. You can’t sentimentalize it without sounding ridiculous, and that’s why it lands.

The intent reads like a quiet corrective to the way we talk about family and partnership: not in terms of milestones, but in terms of labor. When she says you’re “wishing there was somebody else there,” the ache isn’t only loneliness; it’s logistics. Illness reveals the invisible scaffolding that keeps a home upright, and it also exposes how often that scaffolding is built by one person, typically without applause, pay, or even backup. The line smuggles in a critique of the lone-hero parenting narrative and the cultural habit of treating care as a personality trait rather than a job.

As an actress, Tilly knows the power of a single prop to tell the whole story. “Flu” is ordinary; “cleaning up vomit” is the uncut scene we edit out of our family myths. The subtext is a plea for partnership that’s less about grand gestures and more about shared burden: love measured in who gets up at 2 a.m., and whether anyone gets up with you.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tilly, Meg. (2026, January 16). There we times when everybody in the house has the flu. You're cleaning up vomit and it's 2 in the morning, and you're wishing there was somebody else there to help you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-we-times-when-everybody-in-the-house-has-131305/

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Tilly, Meg. "There we times when everybody in the house has the flu. You're cleaning up vomit and it's 2 in the morning, and you're wishing there was somebody else there to help you." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-we-times-when-everybody-in-the-house-has-131305/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"There we times when everybody in the house has the flu. You're cleaning up vomit and it's 2 in the morning, and you're wishing there was somebody else there to help you." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-we-times-when-everybody-in-the-house-has-131305/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Meg Tilly (born February 14, 1960) is a Actress from USA.

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