"There will always be something to ruin our lives, it all depends on what or which finds us first. We are always ripe and ready to be taken"
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The sly move is in the metaphor of ripeness. Ripeness is supposed to mean readiness, richness, even sensuality. Bukowski flips it into a predatory clock: to be ripe is to be easiest to pick, to bruise, to take. The phrase "taken" blurs theft, harvest, and sexual conquest, collapsing romance and violence into the same verb. It is cynicism with a pulse.
Context matters: Bukowski wrote out of postwar American grit, the underside of prosperity, where survival is an administrative problem and dignity is a luxury item. The intent is less to persuade than to puncture. If ruin is inevitable, then the sentimental stories we tell about control, merit, and deservingness start to look like expensive lies. The subtext is both bleak and oddly liberating: stop bargaining with fate, stop expecting fairness, and you might finally see your life as it is, not as it is marketed.
Quote Details
| Topic | Free Will & Fate |
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| Source | Later attribution: Words from the Wise (Rosemarie Jarski, 2007) modern compilationISBN: 9781628732733 · ID: ocMtAgAAQBAJ
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... There will always be something to ruin our lives, it all depends on what or which finds us first. We are always ripe and ready to be taken. Charles Bukowski There are three intolerable things in life – cold coffee, lukewarm champagne ... |
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Bukowski, Charles. (2026, March 23). There will always be something to ruin our lives, it all depends on what or which finds us first. We are always ripe and ready to be taken. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-will-always-be-something-to-ruin-our-lives-108814/
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Bukowski, Charles. "There will always be something to ruin our lives, it all depends on what or which finds us first. We are always ripe and ready to be taken." FixQuotes. March 23, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-will-always-be-something-to-ruin-our-lives-108814/.
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"There will always be something to ruin our lives, it all depends on what or which finds us first. We are always ripe and ready to be taken." FixQuotes, 23 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-will-always-be-something-to-ruin-our-lives-108814/. Accessed 25 Mar. 2026.













