"There would be no supporting life were we to feel quite as poignantly for others as we do for ourselves"
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"Poignantly" is the knife. Richardson doesn't imagine a mild sympathy deficit; he imagines what it would mean to feel other people's pain with the same immediate, bodily urgency as our own. His claim is that self-preference isn't a vice we can simply will away; it's a protective insulation that makes action possible. Without it, attention becomes an unpayable debt. Every stranger's grief would demand the kind of response reserved for a wounded limb.
As an 18th-century novelist of sensibility, Richardson is also winking at his era's fetish for refined feeling. His fiction traded on tears, virtue tested under pressure, the moral theater of private suffering. This sentence quietly disciplines that culture: yes, feeling is ethically valuable, but saturation is paralyzing. The subtext is almost clinical: morality requires triage. We do not ignore others because we're monsters; we ration intensity because constant full-strength compassion would collapse the self that compassion needs in order to act.
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Richardson, Samuel. (2026, January 18). There would be no supporting life were we to feel quite as poignantly for others as we do for ourselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-would-be-no-supporting-life-were-we-to-feel-11471/
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Richardson, Samuel. "There would be no supporting life were we to feel quite as poignantly for others as we do for ourselves." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-would-be-no-supporting-life-were-we-to-feel-11471/.
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"There would be no supporting life were we to feel quite as poignantly for others as we do for ourselves." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/there-would-be-no-supporting-life-were-we-to-feel-11471/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.











